Wednesday, December 30, 2020

Alex Stojsic's PA (Pretty Awesome)

I think the first time I met Alex, we were in the middle of the desert, dancing our asses off at my first rave.  I was introduced to him and Venus through my friend James Henry who some of you may know from Tower Records.  I remember thinking, Now I know two long-hairs who like EDM! 


I soon learned that both Alex and Venus shared my passion for music, and over the years I’ve had the pleasure of their company not only at raves and concerts, but in my home for barbeques and parties. I always loved when Alex would make his delicious homemade Cevapcici, and I’ll never forget when James and he made it in my kitchen. I walked in and saw that they had molded Meatwad out of the ground meat mixture!


Alex is also one of the reasons my Laborless Day Party became an annual event.  I wanted to have bands play in my backyard for the party, but I didn’t have a PA system.  Alex kindly offered to lend me his.  Thus a yearly tradition was born.


And that PA has been an absolute godsend ever since.  Over the last decade plus, more than a half dozen bands have benefitted from it.  Whether it’s practicing in my garage or playing live somewhere that has no sound system, it’s been perfect - portable but powerful.  That’s not to mention all the cash it’s saved my bandmates and me which would’ve otherwise been spent on renting rehearsal space.  And as a drummer, being able to have band practice without loading my drums in and out is the absolute ideal.


In short, that PA has improved my life immensely. 


And that’s all because of Alex’s generosity.  He didn’t want money for it, and anytime I offered to give it back, he’d decline.  He told me he was just happy that someone was using it.


Thank you, Alex, for the gift that keeps on giving.  Long may it continue to rock in your name, reminding me of your kind and magnanimous spirit. 


Rest in Power


Friday, December 25, 2020

XMAS 2020

9:09 pm, 25th of December, 2020 ~ Post Festivities Reflections

I’d say that’s about as good as it can get during a global pandemic.

Exhausting in the best possible way - 

Family fun, food, festive drinks,

A delicious dinner of ham and homemade Cantilone,

Napping with the NBA on TV- 

Lakers giving us fans want we really want for Christmas.

Not a bad way to end a now going-on 14-hour celebration.

7am was certainly not an unreasonable time to begin.

Actually, it was foreseeable, as Mel totally called it,

But any lethargy felt was quickly dispelled by Tilly

Tearing into her stocking and Santa booty.

The race track and walkie talkies - immediate favorites -

Will definitely make the trek to the Babbas later,

But not before one of the race cars gets tangled in Tilly's hair.

Last year’s big present and recent Toy du Jour, the scooter,

Won’t even make it out of the trunk of the car today.

No helmet necessary for any Zooming we’ll be doing later

When the full, 4-family clan gathers online

To exchange holiday cheer and battle for Kahoot glory.

First time in over a decade we’re “together” on Christmas day,

Grandpa notes, a significant silver lining.

By the time Tilly opens the Babbas’ gifts, she's overloaded.

Despite her massive spoils, she still wants a toy garbage truck.

“Tilly may not know it yet, but the best gift is the hugs,”

Brian comments on a FB picture of her embracing the Babbas.

I couldn’t agree more. 

Amidst the epic devastation this year has wrought,

We’re so incredibly lucky for these lovely moments together.


Merry Everything, Everybody!!